Welcome to our family blog site! We are not ashamed to call ourselves Christians both in word and in deed. We are proud parents of four children: two daughters and two internationally adopted sons. You won't find any raunchy stuff here. A special welcome to my Theology 104 students.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Waiting
The Bible speaks often on the value of waiting on the Lord. Do a word search sometime. We find waiting is difficult because we are a people who value progress. Waiting is construed as laziness. "Certainly there is something that you can do" - as if one can perform in a way to make God do what you want him to do. Actually waiting is one of the Christian's greatest works. It is not a passive inactivity. On the contrary, waiting is hard work. It calls for deliberate yieldness of control to God.
If you are looking for work, you have the responsiblity of creating a resume, visiting possible employers, studying, dressing and preparing for the interview. However, the ultimate decision of a job offer rests not in the candidate but in the employer. And for the Christian, the control of one's life rests in the Lord. He's in charge and he guides and directs. Proverbs 3:5-6 saya, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths." Though the word "wait" is not used here, the precept is. When one waits and trusts in God's leading, and one is willing to allow God to change one's plans, then there is a sense of peace knowing that He is in charge and will direct one's path.
I hope you learn about the blessing of waiting; it beats worrying any day.
Monday, January 31, 2011
The Prodigal has come home
We thought for sure that she had become victim to a wild animal or was driven far from home by the neighborhood dogs. We even believed that she had frozen to death. Yet, we were continually alert to any signs of Twix. There were days when we thought we had heard her meow. It led to an all out search around the house and under the porches. Lately we saw some Twix sightings - a white streak darting across the backyard at night.
Then this morning, she dared to approach the yard. My wife went out with a full cup of cat food and gently waited, calling for her to come out of the woods. Twix relented; completely famished she approached the outstretched hand and devoured the kitty treats.
Our prodigal kitty is now resting comfortably at the foot of our bed, purring. She has lost a great deal of weight and we can count every bone in her scrawny body.
Just when I thought I had a good understanding of Jesus' parable of the Lost Son in Luke 15, I now have new insight on the ravages of sin, the immense love of God and the blessing of a lost one who has come home again. Consider the following from Luke 15:11ff.:
1. A young man chooses to reject the comfort and safety of home and family. He believes that he's missing the fun that others experience in the world. Who cares if it goes against the morals and values of the family or if it brings dishonor, shame, and embarrassment to the father.
2. At first the son is intoxicated by a newly found freedom to do as he pleases - away from the prying eyes of his parents and brother. Then he becomes addicted to pleasure, popularity, and promiscuity
3. After he squanders his money, his so-called friends disappear and he is left financially, emotionally, and spiritually bankrupt. He hits bottom as he is hired to slop hogs.
4. Starving, ragged, and sickly, the homeless man reflects upon the life he had given up, considering that his life of sin brought him to ruin. He remembered home and how the servants lived in his father's house. And he rehearsed what he would say to his father and to his God.
5. In repentance, he turned his heart toward home and fell into the embrace of his ever searching father.
Here's what I learned from our family experience.
1. It's never to late to come home. Regardless of what you have done and where you have been, you can come home again to the outstretched arms of God.
2. Sin is pleasurable for a time but it carries with it a heavy price upon one's soul. The payback is always more than you bargained for. James 1:14-15 states, "but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. It happened to Eve in the garden and it happened to King David (See 2 Samuel 11:2-17).
3. The Father is always searching and waiting for the lost to come home. He's not angry or ready to whip the son. No, there is rejoicing! There's a party! There's expressions of love and acceptance. . Twice in Luke 15 Jesus says, "There is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents." (v.7, 10). Can you picture the father longing, praying, seeking desiring for his son to return home?
Have I described your life? It's not too late to come home to Jesus. Confess that your sins have separated you from God. Call upon His name and ask Christ to forgive you and cleanse you from the inside out. Believe that Jesus Christ is God's only Son, whose death on the cross has borne the penalty for and has paid the price for your sins. He came from the Father, lived a sinless life, suffered a cruel death on our behalf and rose physically victorious from the grave. He stands at the Father's right hand, living and interceding for you. Invite Him into your life right now and allow Him first place. Give yourself wholeheartedly to Him. Thank Him for what He has done. And then find someone whom you can tell about the decision you have made.
He is one final thought for those art lovers out there. Rembrandt was a famous renaissance painter. He often chose to paint religious scenes because of its marketability. However, he was fascinated with the story of the prodigal son. His first painting was of the prodigal son (Rembrandt himself) as a dashing suave swashbuckler with girl friend on one knee and wine in his cup. he was having a party. The second painting was of the prodigal son returning home, This portrait may be found in St. Petersburg, Russia. I urge you to study this portrait.
For those who love to read, I recommend the book, "The Story of the Prodigal Son" by Henri Nouwen.
God bless you all.
Friday, December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas 2010
Here are some things we are thankful for in this Christmas season.
1. The blessing of a warm place to live. Even though much of America has experienced a cold snap, we are all "nestled in our beds". There is food in the cupboard and everyone is healthy.
2. The blessing of family. As we grow older, we feel a greater need for connectedness to family. We don't know how long we will all have each other, so every minute we spend with our loved ones is precious.
3. Jobs and the hope for future employment. We're thankful for the schooling that enables us to find good jobs. Amy continues her college education and Roger finishes his Master's Degree. Now for the difficult task of finding gainful employment.
4. Shriner's Hospital - We're so thankful for this organization that reaches out to improve the lives of children with disabilities. Steven has done very well after his recent surgery. He's back to running and playing, although there still is some sensitivity in his knees.
5. Most importantly, we are grateful for the birth of Jesus Christ, who not only has revolutionized our world, but has changed our lives as well. Any accomplishments we have made in our lives and family is due to His generosity and kindness.
May the Lord enrich your lives and give Him the gift of your devotion.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Shriners Hospital Surgery
Meanwhile, Samuel received his new prosthetic arm. It looks like a regular arm and hand with an external cable attached to straps. When he moves a shoulder muscle, his fingers will open and close. Right now he is a bit embarrassed to wear it in public - school or church. If he discovers a good use for the arm I'm sure he will use it regularly.
Student teaching is likewise progressing and should be completed by the end of the semester. Amy is also taking classes. But she doesn't know how much longer she will be able to stay in school because there are so few funds available right now.
I am reminded what it says in the Psalms: "The Lord's purposes for us will not fail."
Monday, August 23, 2010
Shriner's Hospital
1. Samuel will soon be receiving a new arm - Samuel still needs to understand that a prosthetic limb is a tool. It cannot be like his other hand and arm. Can't improve on what God made. They let him play with an arm and he was able to make the hand open and close by simply moving his shoulder. He will be able to use his new arm to ride a bicycle or even play a trumpet.
2. Steven's kind of arthrogryposis was determined to be amyoplasia. This is the most common type of arthrogryposis. There is not yet a genetic test to determine this condition. The geneticist came up with this conclusion by examining Steven's condition. He feels that Steven can actually improve in some his his movements with physical therapy.
3. The orthopedic doctors and surgeon are scheduling surgery for Steven to improve his alignment. An epiphysiodesis surgery will be performed. It should alleviate some of Steven's leg pain while helping to correct bowing in his legs. Perhaps he will not fall down as often as he does.
4. The occupational therapist is very good. She really knows her stuff! She was so excited to learn that Steven actually has biceps. She believes these muscles can gain some strength.
We're not sure how we're going to work out the details for the surgery with my teaching schedule. Both of us will need to be there since both children have appointments that day. They will miss at least three days of school.
Our daughter is now a college student! She's already getting acclimated and is making new friends. I'll see her tomorrow and perhaps spend some time with her.
Friday, July 23, 2010
What would you do?
This month has been brutally hot in the Mid Atlantic, especially at our home where the heat pump is not keeping up with cooling us down. It's about 90 inside! I think we will need a new one before long - not good news. However, there is a bit of good news. Grad school is nearly completed. Student teaching begins soon and there's a new job on the horizon.
The boys will soon be visiting Shriner's hospital to evaluate their personal and medical needs. Steven will undergo some genetic testing to determine the type of arthrogryposis. Steven will better be able to communicate his needs now that he has a greater command of the English language. Hopefully they will be able to help him with some of his mobility needs.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Limited Connectivity
Have you ever had this error message on your computer? This is a regular occurrence around our home. For some strange reason if two people try to access the Internet at the same time, the router bumps us off. We know this is happening when we see the yellow triangle with an exclamation point positioned over the Internet access icon on the bottom of the screen. Though it states we have access, that access is limited and in truth, we don’t really have the kind of connection that allows for browsing the net.
As I was pondering my dilemma, I recognized the parallel between this situation and the spiritual life. We are guaranteed access by to God by faith in Christ (Romans 5:1-2). Nothing can change this connection to the Lord. It was purchased for us by the very blood of Jesus, who died for our sins on the cross. However there are times when a problem of connecting to God occurs on our end. And what can affect that communication? First, sin hampers our relationship with God so that we fail to hear him. Our spiritual senses become dull and we choose not to walk in His ways. We don’t log on to Christ and live by His power. If there’s no spiritual power, the connection fades and the signal becomes weak. Second, we fail to personally apply our faith in the Lord’s promises. At times, I become keenly aware of my inadequacies and my short-comings. I begin to question myself and fail to trust in God’s plan for my life. Recently, I struggled with feelings of inadequacy and I became discouraged and disheartened. I couldn’t find the words to communicate my feelings to the Lord. It was as if my connection was failing. I needed to be reminded of the words of Jesus who said, “I will never leave nor forsake you.” And again the words of Paul “For he who has begun a good work in us will bring it to completion…”. For those who feel discouragement, hold on to God’s very precious promises. God’s purpose and plan for your life will not fail.
One solution to the problem of limited connectivity is rebooting the router, modem, and computer. It works in the spiritual life too. Take a morning or a day off; get away on a date with the Lord and spend time in communion with him, away from distractions to read and to pray. Stay on your retreat until you make a breakthrough and you can really find the words to communicate and to listen. Yes, listening is an important part of connecting with God. Turn off the radio, cell phone, TV, iPod, CD player, computer, and other peripheral devices; use that time on the knees with God. Our generation is addicted to noise. Take this simple test to determine if you have a noise addiction. When you start your car in the morning and prepare to leave your driveway for work do you reach for the radio and turn it on? Try driving without any noise whatsoever in the car for one week. Can you stand being alone with yourself? Now take that time normally spent listening to the radio and use it to touch the face of God. Moses communicated with God face to face as a man talks with a friend. When he spent time with the Lord, his face glowed with the radiance of standing before the Holy One. He wore a veil to cover this glory and perhaps to cover his own shame as that glow began to fade over time. Perhaps it is this shame prevents us from connecting with God so we reach for noise to fill the space. The ancients often practiced the discipline of solitude as a way to commune with the Lord. How long has it been since you spent real time with the Lord, just listening for a change? The spirit within us desires more than five minutes of time with God. It craves for spiritual food and drink which only comes through spiritual connection. Don’t settle for limited connectivity.
Friday, June 11, 2010
Class in session
Friday, April 16, 2010
Congratulations Graduate
"Commit your way to the Lord", the Scripture says. That's just what she is doing as she pursues a career that helps others through their illnesses and hurts. May God bless her endeavors.
We'll celebrate her achievements with a small party this weekend with family and friends. The weather should hold up well. If I can find the camera patch cord, I'll upload photos.
Monday, April 5, 2010
The Living Cross
One of the things I learned from the Living Cross was the fact that Christ came to die alone so that we may never live without Him. " This truth was reinforced as a fellow singer nearly fainted right next to me. I grabbed him and helped him get down to the lobby where a paramedic worked on him till an ambulance arrived. Thankfully he will be OK but I was determined to stay with him until help arrived. The Lord promises to be with us forever. "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." One of the most comforting passages of Scripture is found in Romans 8:38 ".... nothing will ever separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." Can you fully grasp the extent that Jesus Christ went in order to bring life to you?
May we live daily with the profundity of this truth.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Scarce Commodoties
This morning I as awoke from praying for the Lord to replenish our water supply, I had these thoughts:
1. In John 4 Jesus told a woman that the water she drew from would not satisfy her thirst. but the water that he gives would be eternally fulfilling. It's a supply that will never run dry.
2. The Scripture also states that the Lord will satisfy all your needs according to his glorious riches. (see the supply and demand working here?)
3. Jesus also taught us to pray "give us today our daily bread". Interestingly I prayed this with the boys last night before bedtime. We must pray believing that God cares about our needs and He will provide what we need for the moment. Someone once stated that God will supply our needs, not our greeds.
This morning we have water. I don't know how restored our water supply is, but we will have enough for today. For this we must give thanks. Therefore we can have confidence that God will supply gainful employment, enough funds to pay our necessities. And even when we have lean times, we can experience the security of knowing that God's unlimited supply of his love and grace is ours.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Children of the World
Please take a look and think of sponsoring a child or in the least, allow the Lord to bless and touch your heart for the children of the world. So many can live if they only had clean water. $15 can supply water to one person for a very long time!
The blessing will be yours
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
World Records
Look at the photos of our children's snowman creations. They even made one snowman lying down. We sent copies to our local news station but haven't seen anything yet.
Job creation still remains a big issue not only for our country but for our family. Please pray that God will provide what we really need. I don't recall if I mentioned that Holly is planning to return to school to gain skills as a CNA.
How about that stimulus money! Have you seen any of it yet? I heard one alarming report' because of the stimulus, every family in America will be 100,000 in debt.
Hope to hear from some of you.
Saturday, January 30, 2010
The Blizzard of 2010
May the Lord keep you all safe from all the storms you encounter.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
A collection of musings
This morning when I walked Samuel down to the bus, the sun was just peaking over the hill but as we descended toward the street the sun was obscured by that same hill. But I know that very soon the sun will reemerge. In fact, it hadn't left. I was the one who moved. So, when you wake up gloomy and depressed, know that the sun is about to rise.
Recently the Shriners mailed us free tickets to see the circus in Roanoke. The boys had never been to a circus. In fact, Steven was afraid that he would have to touch a lion. We assured him that he wouldn't have to be near the animals. We even checked out books and videos from the library abou the circus so he could understnad what will happen there. So, I hope to have some photos of "the big top" in the next blog session.
School for Roger and Amy is in full swing and we have lots of projects, field experiences and exams to complete. Holly plans to go to school in March. She will pursue a CNA certification.
Last night the president gave his state of the union address. As a result of his first year in office, our deficit has climbed so quickly that it is estimated that every family owes $100,000. I'm not sure who the bailout is helping. Have you seen any of this money? Jobless rates climbed from 6 to 10% (That figure is probably higher because it only represents only those who are on unemployment compensation, not those who 'gave up looking' or who were self-employed.) Terrorist activities continue and those who are captured are receiving the same rights as American citizens while detained. His plan is for government to control more sectors of our economy, including our health care instead of empowering the States to assume more control over these issues. Frankly, I feel that the States are more in touch with the people than is the federal government.
After saying all of this, please understand that America's democratic system is still much better than other systems in the world. Simply travel outside of America and you will gain a greater appreciation for the red, white, and blue.
Outside our kitchen window, the birds flock to the yard to enjoy their morning breakfast of bird seed. The cardinal, blue jay, nuthatch, finch, and chickadee are regular visitors. A few weeks ago we saw some robins. Does this mean spring is on the way? Not according to our latest weather forecast. We're expecting a minimum of six inches of snow this weekend! Sadly, this means our church choir has to postpone a recording session with Lari Goss (Dove award winning producer and orchestrator). But we need not be discouraged because the sun is shining outside today.
One more musing: In preparation for the recording contract our choir has been working diligently twice a week to perform the music flawlessly. We have been doing our best to memorize the words. One particular song spoke to my heart yesterday.
"Suspended above the world that He made, and below His home in the sky;
God in flesh came down to man and man raised Him up to die.
And there on the tree the destiny of ev'ry fallen man,
Was held by nails driven through his sinless feet and hands.
* Somewhere between heaven and earth
stood a symbol of grace,Not based on our worth;
It was there he endured what we deserved
For a cross held the hope of the world,
Somewhere between heaven and earth
Somewhere between time and space, somewhere between judgment and grace'
He became the sin that He'd never known; And for that moment He was left alone
(repeat last paragraph)
Let this be your mediation for today. Christ did it all to purchase our salvation from sin and a relationship with the God who loves us. God bless you all
Saturday, December 26, 2009
The Day After
I do pray that you all had a marvelous Christmas with your family and that you experienced the blessing of our marvelous Savior.
This morning I read in the paper a story of four young men who saved a family from being consumed in an early morning house fire. They were driving along looking for a snack but everything was closed. On their way back home, they passed by a house that was billowing with smoke. They stopped, banged on the door (to no avail), then threw a chair through the window and climbed in. They rushed upstairs and awakened the inhabitants, resucuing them from certain doom. You can read the full article at www.wset.com/news/stories/1209/690580.html
Interesting, two of the heroes bear the last name of Nauss.
There is a greater hero, one who came into our broken and battered world to rescue us from our sins. His name is Jesus, the One who came on Christmas Day. Responding to His offer of forgiveness is as crucial as answering the call to exit a burning house.
That's enough preaching. When I have an opportunity, I'll upload some Christmas photos for you.
One more tidbit. December 26 is known in some places as Boxing Day. One tradition says that this is the day to recognize those who serve us all year round such as the mail carrier. Do something special for a servant in your life today.
Sunday, December 20, 2009
The Blizzard of 2009
We are so thankful for a warm home, electricity, a full cupboard and refrigerator, and safety for our family. We are saddened to have missed church this morning and the candlelight service this evening. The boys and Amy are thrilled with the snowfall. We will be making snowmen when the snow begins to melt. We expect to be able to get out sometime on Monday.
I have been pondering the Christmas story. Did you know:
1. Jesus Christ and John the Baptist were cousins? (born only six months apart).
2. Jesus appeared at the Temple when he was eight days old.?
3. When he was one month old he was presented to the Lord at the Temple for the redemption
of the first born (i.e. to present him to the Lord)?
4. Simeon prophesied that Jesus would be "a light for revelation to the Gentiles and for glory
to the Israelites"?
5. We don't know how many Magi there were. The Bible does not indicate a certain number. We
only know that they presented him with gifts of gold, frankinsense and myrrh.
(Frankinsense was often used in temple ceremonies when prayer was offered and mixed into
an anointing oil. The word "Messiah" means "anointed one". Myrrh was a spice used in
burial rites. One might consider that gold was for Jesus' royalty, frankinsense for his priestly
ministry, and myrrh for his sacrificial death on the cross for our sins.
When the storms enter your life, let's be thankful that God has made provision through a great gift - His Son Jesus. Merry Christmas everyone.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Christmas is almost here!
Alicia and Lorelai is planning to visit our home this Christmas season. Again, this will be the first time she has been with us at Christmastime since 2007. There will be a lot of delicious food to prepare for the holidays. One tradition we enjoy is cooking caramels and banana bread. Fudge is also a wonderful treat during this time of year.
Please pray for Steven. He has a small tumor on his cheek that needs tending. Tomorrow he has a CT scan followed by a doctor visit to discuss the options. On the surface it seems like a simple procedure. However, there are many facial nerves and muscles to contend with. Thankfully it doesn't seem to bother him.
I pray you continue to experience the blessing of the Christ of Christmas!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
A week of celebrations
This season I am thankful that God has allowed me to attend Liberty University and gain new teaching skills. Working toward certification and licensure is not an easy process. Under the new legislation, "No Child Left Behind Act", all school systems need to show that their teachers are "highly qualified". Although this term is not clearly defined, the state of Virginia demonstrates teacher skill through testing. Most teachers need to take the Virginia Communication and Literacy Assessment (VCLA) or the Praxis 1, AND the Praxis 2. Special educators take the Virginia Reading Assessment exam. Students like myself, (those seeking double certification) must take all three exams. On Monday I took the four hour VCLA test. Unofficial reports show that I scored 97% in the Reading subtest while scoring 85% in the Writing subtest. Of course official scores will be mailed to me. In January I will take the VRA (a much harder test) that examines a student's readiness for special education work.
Samuel celebrated his fifth birthday this week. In addition to a party with his family, Sammy is having fun with his new remote controlled car. We have the perfect basement for such toys. Steven can't wait for March when we celebrate his 7th birthday. He never had a party before. I wonder if anyone ever celebrated his birthday. This will also be the first year Steven celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ.
The close of 2009 also marks the beginnning of an expensive but necessary readoption process for our two sons. Because Steven's official birthdate is inaccurate (by 2 years), we need to legally change the date and go through a readoption. So we will do it with both boys. This way, they will receive an official US birth certificate (which comes in very handy these days).
May your thanksgiving celebration focus your gratefulness upward as you praise God for his great goodness and grace.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Congratulations Amy!
Samuel turns 5 on Tuesday. Alicia will be here with baby to celebrate it. We'll share pictures on our next blog. Yesterday he told Santa Claus that he wants a kids digital camera. (Consequently, Steven said the same thing!) We went to Sam's school yesterday for a class presentation. They dressed as Indians and sang songs. How cute!
Steven has just been approved by the school system to receive occupational therapy. So they wrote up an addendum for his IEP. Whoever wrote it doesn't know a thing about arthrogryposis and has made both lofty and unrealistic goals for Steven's progress. "By 6/4/2010,Steven will improve bilateral coordination and overal proximal stabilty by 50% in order to maximize performance during functional mobility and school related tasks." This progress is measured by observation. How are they going to measure 50% improvement through observation? "BY 6/4/2010, Steven will improve developmental hand skils by 50% in order ot maximize performance during finre motor and graphomotor tasks."Again, this is measured through observation. If they accomplish this feat, they will have reversed Steven's condition! "By 6/4/2010, Steven will improve graphomotor skills by 75% in order to perform within the classroom setting." Again, if this were to occur, Steven would be miraculously cured. Remember that his condition, although non-progressive, he has contractures in his upper and lower extremities. His joints have bone deformities and he lacks physical muscle tissue. There are reasons why he is unable to clap his hands or turn his palms upwards. He is unable to bend his legs. (There is absence of a patella.) However, we will allow the school to work with him because he can benefit from OT and we're thankful that the school really wants to help Steven develop and grow.
They boys have been riding the horses at the therapeudic riding center and are developing good balance and posture. We'll have to take some pictures. Hopefully in the spring, they will learn to trot and begin to rein. This free program for children with special needs is a real blessing, especially for children suffering from Autism. Please pray that Spirithorse will receive a grant to build an indoor riding ring which is so desperately needed.
Holly still has lettuce, swiss chard and spinach in her garden! It's amazing to have fresh produce so late in the season!
Roger has been working part time, very sporadically as a substitute teacher. It has been a very interesting experience. Some of the kids say that he's the best sub; (it could be they are buttering him up or he's too easy with the kids). One kid said, "I learned more from you in one class session than what the teacher taught in a week! More lard I think.
Enjoy our latest photos. Have a blessed Thanksgiving! "O give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His mercy endures forever."